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Action

Our work

We will take action to:
  • seek information
  • speak up for parents who are silenced within their own communities
  • challenge homophobia
As part of this work, we have written to the following organisations/individuals:
  • The General Teaching Council of England, seeking information
  • Michael Gove MP , Shadow Secretary of State for Children, Schools and Families, seeking information
  • Bishop Michael Ali-Nazir


Keeping informed

To keep abreast with LGBT politics, try www.theyworkforyou.com. You can keep up with debates and look up MPs voting records.


Taking action to reduce homophobia 

Homophobia is not actually a ‘phobia’ or a fear. It is term which used to describe the nastiness and hatred that is sometimes directed towards LGBT people.

Homophobia is the opposite of tolerance and understanding. It is a reflection of our society, and, like racism, is often the result of ignorance, misinformation and bigotry.

The level of homophobia in this country is not to be underestimated. One in five lesbian and gay people have experienced a homophobic hate crime or incident in the last three years ('Hate Crime', Stonewall, 2008). This can take the form of insults, harassment or physical assault. 

However, homophobia can also take other forms, such as ignoring the ill-treatment or cruelty meted out to LGBT people or a failure to act decisively in the face of dissent:

First they came for the communists,

And I did not speak out because I was not a communist 

Then they came for the socialists, 

And I did not speak out because I was not a socialist

Then they came for the trade unionists

And I did not speak out because I was not a trade unionist

Then they came for the Jews, 

And I did not speak out because I was not a Jew

Then they came for me

And there was no one left to speak out for me.'


              One of several versions attributed to 

Pastor Martin Niemoller (1892-1984)

   

The homophobia in this country stems from a number of sources:

  • Sexual acts between men were illegal until the Sexual Offences Act decriminalised homosexuality in 1967. The criminalisation of same-sex relationships contributed to the secrecy and silence that causes so much harm to LGBT people.Even now, this impacts on attitudes, particularly amongst older people.
  • Homosexuality was considered an illness and was not removed from the 'Diagnostic ad Statistical Manual of Mental Illness' until 1973. Damaging treatments were attempted. Alan Turing, often considered the father of modern computer science, was convicted of gross indecency in 1952 because of his relationship with another man. He was offered the 'choice' of imprisonment or chemical 'treatment'. He opted for treatment and ended up taking his own life. In 2009 Gordon Brown apologised for this on behalf of the government, describing what was done as: 'horrifying'.
  • In 1988 the Conservative Government introduced the infamous 'Section 28' which prohibited local authorities and schools from doing anything to: 
'...intentionally promote homosexuality...or...promote the teaching ...of the acceptability of homosexuality as a pretend family relationship'.

This had the effect of preventing anti-homphobic bullying work in schools for fifteen years. In 2009, David Cameron apologised on behalf of the Conservative Party for its part in introducing Section 28.

  • Some newspapers and other media sources perpetuate ignorant and homophobic views. For example, the ‘No Outsiders’ project (see Education), which aimed to reduce homophobic bullying and prejudice in primary schools, was incorrectly described by the Daily Mail as being about: ‘...teaching gay sex to under 11s’ (Daily Mail 16.9.2008).

  • Some ethnic groups who have come to Britain over the past few decades come from homophobic cultures, often countries where homosexuality is illegal. This includes a large number of African countries and some of the Caribbean islands. Some reggae, rap and hip hop songs emanating from Jamaica encourage violent homophobic acts, including murder. A campaign called 'Stop Murder Music', set up by Peter Tatchell's 'Outrage!' has recently been successful in the cancellation of concerts by some of the most serious offenders. See our section on Black and Ethnic Minorities.
  • A number of religions have ambiguous attitudes towards LGBT people and incorrectly promote the notion that people can change their sexuality. See our section on Religion.

What about people who have strong religious views about homosexuality?

Everyone is entitled to their political, religious or moral beliefs. However, it would be wrong to express these views in ways that upset other people. The advice given to NHS employees by the General Medical Council, for example, offers this helpful guideline:

'...You must not express...your personal beliefs, including political, religious or moral beliefs, in ways that exploit (patients') vulnerability or are likely to cause them distress.'

This guidance will be helpful to other professionals, such as teachers, but also offers a 'rule of thumb' to anyone working with vulnerable groups, including the young.

How do we keep our children safe from homphobic acts?

What is Families Together London doing to reduce homophobia?

  • Our education campaign is aimed at increasing knowledge and understanding. Children and young people will be less likely to grow up to be homophobic if they are taught by adults who  use the words: 'gay', lesbian' and 'homosexual' in context and without embarrassment.

  • We try to act as a voice for parents who are silenced within their own communities by explaining the issues that confront us and our children to those who perhaps have not considered things from our perspective. We also write to those who make inaccurate or inappropriate remarks about lesbian and gay people in public.
  • Many parents from our group have gone on to speak out against homophobia within their own communities and their places of worship.

Volunteering opportunities

The Albert Kennedy Trust seeks mentors to support young LGBT people - www.akt.org.uk

They are also seeking homes for homeless young LGBT people. 
If you have a spare room, get in touch!

Taking part in campaigns

Campaigns in the UK

LGCM (the Lesbian and Gay Christian Movement) is campaigning for:

  • Allowing churches to perform civil partnerships
  • Sexual orientation to be included in the next census

See www.lgcm.org.uk, click on Action. 

How will including sexual orientation in the next census help LGBT people?

This is about the difference between privacy and invisibility. A person's sexuality is private if they choose to keep it so. However, the lack of information on LGBT people can mean that they are statistically invisible, which means that services cannot be directed towards those groups. For more information, see:

Beyond Tolerance: Making sexual orientation a public matter (2009) Equality and Human Rights Commission Policy Report 2009 -  www.equalityhumanrights.com

Moving Forward: Puttinng sexual orientation in the public domain (2009) Equality and Human Rights Commission research summary 40 www.equalityhumanrights.com

Also:

What's it got to do with you? Ten reasons why you should fill in those funny box things at the end of forms Stonewall - www.stonewall.org.uk

Campaigns across the world

Visit our page on LGBT rights around the world by clicking here.

Visit the Amnesty International LGBT Network by clicking here

Uganda

Uganda has recently introduced a draft ‘Anti-Homosexuality Bill’. Homosexuality is already criminalised in Uganda, but this Bill will also allow the death penalty to be used as a punishment for homosexuality as well as imprisonment. People who do not inform on those they know are gay could be imprisoned. The Bill also forbids the provision of funds, premises for activities or other resources. 

You can find out more about the situation in Uganda

At www.lgcm.org.uk, click on Action' to read about their campaigns. You can sign the petition about Uganda (click on the word ‘petition’ at the end of that section).

Lithuania

The Lithuanian Parliament has proposed amendments to a bill which will criminalise events, campaigning and the production of materials on human rights around the areas of sexual orientation and gender identity.

International perspectives and the human rights movement

To find out more about human rights and LGBT rights around the world click here.


Websites/Resources

Educational Action Challenging Homophobia (EACH) 0808 1000 143 - www.eachaction.org.uk

Exceeding Expectations: Ending Homophobia through Education - www.exceedingexpectations.org.uk

The Lesbian and Gay Christian Movement - www.lgcm.org.uk choose 'Action'