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Mother's Day Pride

posted 10 Mar 2013 10:00 by Families Together London   [ updated 10 Mar 2013 11:30 by Rob Briggs ]

In conjunction with www.londoncommunitypride.org we have been able to produce this video which we hope you will enjoy watching.  It celebrates the relationship between mother and child and if you go on the above website you can see a number of similar videos all of which confirm the power of love.


HSBC Panel Discussion on Role Models - 5th March 2013

posted 6 Mar 2013 05:14 by Families Together London

I was delighted to be invited by David Lever, Senior Marketing Manager at HSBC to their Panel Discussion exploring the importance of role models from schools to the world of business.  The discussion focussed on two groups where role models can make a particular difference - the LGBT community and senior women in the workplace.  The evening was facilitated by Brian Heyworth, HSBC's Global Head of Financial Institutions Group and Executive Co-Sponsor of Pride UK.  The panel was made up as follows -

Antonio Simoes, HSBC's Regional Commercial Director for London
Carol Bagnald, HSBC's Regional Commercial Director for London
Suran Dickson, CEO of the anti-bullying charity Diversity Role Models
Colleen Humphrey, Director of Workplace for the gay equality charity Stonewall
Gail Peyton, Headteacher of Sir James Barrie Primary School in Wandsworth

The audience was made up of about 200 people, mainly members of HSBC staff, both gay and straight.  Delightfully HSBC offices around the UK were able to be streamed in and when it came to the Q and A part of the evening we were able to share the evening's experience with them.  

Initially Brian Heyworth started the proceedings off by posing various questions to the panel such as what is it like being openly gay in the workplace or not coming out?  How does this impact on your career?  Who makes a good role player?  Carol Bagnald who is a single mother and has an 18 year old son spoke about making a career with bringing up a child on your own.  There are too many discussion points to mention but the panel covered many aspects of being LGBT in the workplace and maybe being seconded to another country where being gay is not acceptable.  

The evening over ran but there was still time for a Q and A session and although I was not posing a question I put up my hand to say how impressed I was with the panel and then proceeded to say who I was and who I represented.  Being in my usual garb I said that obviously I was not a banker as I was dressed in leggings, long boots and a bright top!  This caused a ripple of laughter.  I said that the first role model any person has is really their parent and that if your parents support you in your development be you straight or gay hopefully you will go forward taking with you all that is necessary to become a role model yourself in later life.  

When we broke up for drinks and canapes I was surrounded by a number of people who wanted to know more about FTL.  In fact David Lever wants HSBC to link up with us in some way.

It was a stimulating evening and never in my wildest dreams did I think that when I joined FTL six or so years ago I would be sitting on the 41st floor of HSBC's Head Office, looking down at London and speaking to so many people.  

Funny old life!!

Jackie Briggs

Pink Parenting Magazine

posted 22 Dec 2012 09:36 by Families Together London   [ updated 11 Feb 2013 08:48 ]

Welcome to Pink Parenting Magazine! The Premier Parenting Magazine designed for the LGBT community that are either interested in having children or already have them. With modern life comes the modern family as many gay and lesbian couples seek to fulfil their biological needs of having a family. Available in both Digital & Print. www.pink-parenting.com


Jackie Briggs article in the Daily Telegraph

posted 28 Nov 2012 06:13 by Families Together London   [ updated 19 Dec 2012 10:42 ]

Mary and Jackie B give talk/discussion at UBS Diversity Week

posted 17 Sep 2012 03:37 by Families Together London   [ updated 18 Nov 2012 11:52 ]

Kate Lumetta, who is Co-Chair of the Employee Pride (LGBT) Network invited Families Together London to their offices.  UBS has a programme called Straight Allies.   This talk was to take place during Diversity Week at UBS and it was well advertised within the organisation.  Kate had 70 people wishing to attend but sadly, because of major upheavals at UBS the previous week, lots of members of staff were absent – so – we ended up with 7 attendees!  Still, I think Mary and I gave a good account of who we are and what we do regardless of the lack of participants.  

Needless to say we did not use the podium, raised platform or microphone set up but just kept it very informal.Mary and I discussed how we would present our ‘piece’ and I set the ball a rolling by talking about FTL and how it has grown over the years and helped parents when they were at the end of their tether and then Mary gave her perspective on the complications surrounding religious beliefs whether they be Christian, Muslim, Jewish, Hindu etc.  We also talked about how to deal with being a supportive colleague when another colleague comes out.  What to say and more importantly what not to say.  Inclusion is very important and I gave an example.  Monday morning comes and people gather around the coffee machine asking who has done what over the weekend.  It is important for a gay member of staff to feel able to say openly that he/she and his/her partner had a great time staying at a cottage in the Cotswolds and had great walks and super dinner at the local pub instead of steering away from the gathering and feeling excluded.

It was amazing that although there were so few people present the hour went by extremely quickly and Kate emailed us to say what a valuable session it had been.UBS made a very generous donation to FTL of £300 which will cover the costs of three meetings at Battersea.

Jackie Briggs

FTL at Pride 2012

posted 8 Jul 2012 13:04 by Families Together London   [ updated 17 Nov 2012 17:07 by Rob Briggs ]

WORLD PRIDE PROCESSION

7th JULY 2012  

Yet again Families Together London presented a substantial group of walkers for Pride this year.  I think we must have been close to 30 in number.  A wonderful turnout when you consider the wet weather which was predicted and on this occasion the weather forecasters were right.  If we had started at 11.00 we might have missed the showers – both heavy and light – but for some reason there was a considerable delay before we moved forward.  Never mind, we got going in the end.  This year we did not hand out leaflets but instead waved balloons in the same colour as our t-shirts.  What a soggy mess it would have been handing out leaflets.  Next year we might go for stickers to hand out as some of you have suggested.

I wasn’t at the start as FTL was chosen as one of the groups to have an interview with Stephen Fry for a programme he is fronting on homophobia around the world.  He is going to China and India and other countries to speak to incredibly brave people who are not free to express their sexuality openly for fear of prison or worse.  We are very lucky in this country compared to other places in the world don’t you think?  When you consider how many groups were represented at Pride we were fortunate to be one of the few to be given this opportunity.  The programme is going to be aired on BBC2 towards the end of the year.  You will all be notified in good time.  I hope I gave a good and clear account of who we are and what we do at FTL.  Stephen was charming and very tall! For somebody who is just over five feet two inches in height, a crick in the neck was expected as we chatted!

As we meandered down Baker Street and then Oxford Street and onwards towards Whitehall we blew our whistles and waved our balloons to an audience who supported us all along the route. 

I can’t thank enough all the young people who joined us.  Our sons and daughters both straight and gay, their friends and of course direct members of FTL.  Some of you have made giant leaps since you started coming to the group.  I will not name you but you know who you are.  That is why we exist – to help parents and families in pain to turn a corner so that the future is bright for them and their children.

Jackie Briggs 8th July, 2012

Gender identity e-learning resource

posted 28 Jun 2012 12:06 by Families Together London   [ updated 17 Nov 2012 10:44 ]

The Gender Identity Research and Education Society is developing an e-learning resource that individuals, particularly those working in local authorities, can use to increase their knowledge of transgender issues.

It would be most helpful to have your comments on the current version of this resource and to know of any amendments you wish to suggest. It may be viewed at:

http://www.gires.org.uk/elearning/localauthorities/player.html

We are also updating our mailing list. So, please let us know if you wish to be taken off the list.

Kind regards
Bernard Reed OBE, MA, MBA
Trustee 
Gender Identity Research and Education Society (GIRES)
Melverley
The Warren
Ashtead
Surrey, KT21 2SP
01372 801554
info@gires.org.uk
www.gires.org.uk 

Living Together 2012

posted 28 Jun 2012 12:03 by Families Together London

Living Together 2012

Stonewall and YouGov poll on British attitudes to gay and lesbian people
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New Website -"Coming Out Stories"

posted 29 Apr 2012 08:48 by Families Together London

"Coming Out"-BBC3 on 17th January 2012 at 9pm-10pm

posted 12 Jan 2012 10:34 by Families Together London   [ updated 24 Jan 2012 13:53 ]

A program charting the experience of 3 young people as they came out to family and friends was shown on  

BBC 3 on 17th January 2012 -9pm-10pm

It followed 3 young people and their mums as they transitioned from female to male, male to female and a lesbian teenager coming out to her friends.  It was heartwarming and painful to watch at the same time.  It was done in the manner of diary extracts.  Well worth an hour's watch. If you missed this program you will still be able to catch on BBC on the internet.


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